"Believe only half of what you see and nothing that you hear." - -- Dinah Mulock

It will never cease to amaze me the power whispered rumor and innuendo and so called facts that are attributable only to "unnamed sources" or what one "heard" can have. I suppose some of it must be intended cruelty and meanness but most is probably well intended or innocent mistake or lack of information or simple misunderstanding. In any case it has the power to hurt, to cause damage and in some cases, even to destroy.


This past year I saw a very dear friend, and great lady, Dame Lapin Paris, 2007 Caledon RFL Captain, leave Caledon because of just such whispers, all of which were, and are completely untrue. Her leaving was a great loss to Caledon and many of us personally. May that sort of thing never happen again.


No matter what your spiritual belief or understanding, this is the season when we all tend to look back at the previous year and forward to the fresh untouched one. I intend to take Miss Mulock's advice to heart and I hope you will consider doing so as well. Let us all try to treat one another with kindness and gentle touch and as the fragile, breakable beings we are.



(Dame Lapin's name in this post is used by permission)

Erotic Victorian Show and Sell

Saturday evening I attended the Gala opening of the Erotic Victorian show and sell to benefit SL Relay for Life. I am seen here dancing the night away with Mr. Aberdon Enigma and celebrating the very successful opening.

The exhibit, which showcases the beautiful work of Miss Becky Book of Caledon Penzance, has earned more than $L57,000 as of this morning. Music for the event was provided by Mr. Duckthulhu Dagger of Caledon Independent Broadcasters and the affianced of Miss Book. Mr. Dagger, a cancer survivor himself, donated all of his tips from the opening to SLRFL. The show continues in Thistle Hill Keep, Caledon Kintyre until April 5, 2008. (http://slurl.com/secondlife/Caledon%20Kintyre/129/128/54)

An in depth review by Lord Bardhaven may been had here http://bardhaven.wordpress.com/2008/03/31/barely-caledonian/.

If you have not yet gone, go! If you have, go back and buy some more! You may never again have the chance to see so many lovely Caledonians in such a shocking state of undress.